went to have breakfast with my mom today... the same thing that she will ask me again is whether i have any feelings for any girl... LOL... i bet she already have the answer.

well, she says that i am a person that is not sensitive and will not be able "sense" any feelings... well, we had a debate on this issue, and the conclusion is that it has to have the "feeling"...

i think otherwise... though... i believe its more that just the feeling, the physical appearance... there is one thing that i believe that everyone needs is... that we gotta learn how to love ourselves first...

why do i say that?

well, i believe that unless we learn to love ourselves, we cannot have the capacity to be able to love others, which in turn makes things really complicated in terms of relationships... and, we cannot love ourselves too much; we will become selfish.

love, or being in a relationship is one thing that involves commitment, time, energy and many other things... somethings are just impossible to explain, perhaps for a person like me... comeon... i am just 17+...

who in this big world does not want to be in love? even those whom have been hurt in previous relationships, though say they do not want to fall in love again... often, in the back of their heads, wish for a better partner in the future... as crazy as it seems, imagine, from a point of view of another life form when they look at humans... love can make us happy, love can make us sad, love can make us do things they we do not do, love can change a person... its not like in the animal kingdom where food and survival rules, but in the human sense... i believe its love that often drives people.

even Jesus, died for us, because he loved us...

of course, the love mentioned above is a very general term...

in terms of relationships...

it gets more complicated.

often you have people that come along side me, and they will never fail to ask if i have any feelings for any girl. well.... unless i am gay... (which i am not) i believe its a very natural thing to have your attention attracted to someone of the opposite sex...

well, that's where i believe its very important to control our feelings... why?
this is because it may just be a crush, maybe just puppy love...

why do i think this way...

well, perhaps i see a relationship as something that needs to be respected and is underrated by many people today.

my definition of a relationship is more than trust, love, feelings, etc. its something that is divine in this world, this is so because emotions are involved in this phenomenon. you have got to be very very sure that this is the person that you are going to spent the rest of your life with... well, this is often not the case... why? we are all humans... its a human natural to make mistakes...

i just feel that relationships have to be respected and not treated lightly in any sense... its not good to hurt another right? perhaps its the culture today, perhaps it has just turned into another lifestyle, but i want to be different in this way.

i mean, you do not want to see your child suffer from the emotional pain that comes along when a relationship that they once had so much emotions in, ends.

i believe, respect then comes into the picture then...

so you might think

"kenneth, you talk so much, you anti- relationship is it? you anti social is it?"

no...

its just that i want to give the best in terms of relationships to my partner in the future, i want to be true to this person, i want to really love this person with all my heart, and i do not want it to be something that will last for a moment, i want it to last till my very last breath in this world... but, easier said than done...

God made males and females for a reason, and this reason is for us to be together, marriage, relationships, BGR is something that my God has planned out when he created this world, thus i believe it need respect to it... this is how much love is rated by God, but for us humans, love seems to be underrated to become just a feeling, love is more than that, words cannot describe how much love is.

definitely, i want to be married, i want to have a happy family, of course... but, the most important thing now is to have the correct partner first. one whom you can trust, love, be together with... someone that will make you happy even to the smallest of thoughts.

that's what attracts me... that's why i say you need to love yourself and the people around you before you can love your partner.

saw this girl at the bus stop the other day...







yes, she is... i shall say, sweet in my standards, though kind of young, about secondary school, about secondary 3. this girl sat at the bus stop, with her little brother on her left, and her grandmother at her right. this girl has short hair, big eyes, a very sweet face...she is tall too... from my fifteen minutes there, and the bus ride, this is what i saw...

she has so much to talk with her brother and her grandmother, they were smiling, joking and talking, when her brother wanted a drink, she took out her water bottle for him to drink, well, this boy was about 4-5 years old, so she held the bottle for him, made sure that he could drink the water without spilling. she was holding her grandmother's hand, talking to them, she was smiling all the way...

when the bus came, she held the bag for her brother so he could hang it on his shoulders much easily, then she held her grandmother whom has difficulties walking. they boarded the same bus as me, as i headed to the back of the bus, this girl continued to hold her grandmother's hand while trying to make sure that she could find a sit for both her brother and her granny. of course someone gave up the sit, and she was so happy and grateful to the person, she smiled and constantly said thank you to the person. in the end, her granny and brother both had seats, but this girl refused to sit down and allowed another elderly to have the seat that she was offered. she kept her smile...

this girl took my breath away... i was...

man... this is what i call attractive in my standards... loving others... what a character, what a girl. you can really sense that this girl is one that is full of love and care. she is sweet too...

i just feel that we all should try to be like this girl... we should learn to love, to care, to show with our actions that a litte love can make the world a better place.

you do not see much girls like that in singapore today...

high standards right?

well...

thats what my mom said, and she wished me luck...

then she said... "you think you very good, can find a girl like that?"

i thought she will support me... and she did the opposite...

lol...

well, perhaps a little more love and concern will make me a better person?

like they say in economics terms,

"demand and supply is affected by many factors such as taste and preferences..." well, maybe someone out theres is like this?

i pray and wish that i will marry a girl like that...

before this... i need to love myself more...

i hope i have gave you guys a different perspective...

went to have breakfast with my mom today... the same thing that she will ask me again is whether i have any feelings for any girl... LOL... i bet she already have the answer.

well, she says that i am a person that is not sensitive and will not be able "sense" any feelings... well, we had a debate on this issue, and the conclusion is that it has to have the "feeling"...

i think otherwise... though... i believe its more that just the feeling, the physical appearance... there is one thing that i believe that everyone needs is... that we gotta learn how to love ourselves first...

why do i say that?

well, i believe that unless we learn to love ourselves, we cannot have the capacity to be able to love others, which in turn makes things really complicated in terms of relationships... and, we cannot love ourselves too much; we will become selfish.

love, or being in a relationship is one thing that involves commitment, time, energy and many other things... somethings are just impossible to explain, perhaps for a person like me... comeon... i am just 17+...

who in this big world does not want to be in love? even those whom have been hurt in previous relationships, though say they do not want to fall in love again... often, in the back of their heads, wish for a better partner in the future... as crazy as it seems, imagine, from a point of view of another life form when they look at humans... love can make us happy, love can make us sad, love can make us do things they we do not do, love can change a person... its not like in the animal kingdom where food and survival rules, but in the human sense... i believe its love that often drives people.

even Jesus, died for us, because he loved us...

of course, the love mentioned above is a very general term...

in terms of relationships...

it gets more complicated.

often you have people that come along side me, and they will never fail to ask if i have any feelings for any girl. well.... unless i am gay... (which i am not) i believe its a very natural thing to have your attention attracted to someone of the opposite sex...

well, that's where i believe its very important to control our feelings... why?
this is because it may just be a crush, maybe just puppy love...

why do i think this way...

well, perhaps i see a relationship as something that needs to be respected and is underrated by many people today.

my definition of a relationship is more than trust, love, feelings, etc. its something that is divine in this world, this is so because emotions are involved in this phenomenon. you have got to be very very sure that this is the person that you are going to spent the rest of your life with... well, this is often not the case... why? we are all humans... its a human natural to make mistakes...

i just feel that relationships have to be respected and not treated lightly in any sense... its not good to hurt another right? perhaps its the culture today, perhaps it has just turned into another lifestyle, but i want to be different in this way.

i mean, you do not want to see your child suffer from the emotional pain that comes along when a relationship that they once had so much emotions in, ends.

i believe, respect then comes into the picture then...

so you might think

"kenneth, you talk so much, you anti- relationship is it? you anti social is it?"

no...

its just that i want to give the best in terms of relationships to my partner in the future, i want to be true to this person, i want to really love this person with all my heart, and i do not want it to be something that will last for a moment, i want it to last till my very last breath in this world... but, easier said than done...

God made males and females for a reason, and this reason is for us to be together, marriage, relationships, BGR is something that my God has planned out when he created this world, thus i believe it need respect to it... this is how much love is rated by God, but for us humans, love seems to be underrated to become just a feeling, love is more than that, words cannot describe how much love is.

definitely, i want to be married, i want to have a happy family, of course... but, the most important thing now is to have the correct partner first. one whom you can trust, love, be together with... someone that will make you happy even to the smallest of thoughts.

that's what attracts me... that's why i say you need to love yourself and the people around you before you can love your partner.

saw this girl at the bus stop the other day...







yes, she is... i shall say, sweet in my standards, though kind of young, about secondary school, about secondary 3. this girl sat at the bus stop, with her little brother on her left, and her grandmother at her right. this girl has short hair, big eyes, a very sweet face...she is tall too... from my fifteen minutes there, and the bus ride, this is what i saw...

she has so much to talk with her brother and her grandmother, they were smiling, joking and talking, when her brother wanted a drink, she took out her water bottle for him to drink, well, this boy was about 4-5 years old, so she held the bottle for him, made sure that he could drink the water without spilling. she was holding her grandmother's hand, talking to them, she was smiling all the way...

when the bus came, she held the bag for her brother so he could hang it on his shoulders much easily, then she held her grandmother whom has difficulties walking. they boarded the same bus as me, as i headed to the back of the bus, this girl continued to hold her grandmother's hand while trying to make sure that she could find a sit for both her brother and her granny. of course someone gave up the sit, and she was so happy and grateful to the person, she smiled and constantly said thank you to the person. in the end, her granny and brother both had seats, but this girl refused to sit down and allowed another elderly to have the seat that she was offered. she kept her smile...

this girl took my breath away... i was...

man... this is what i call attractive in my standards... loving others... what a character, what a girl. you can really sense that this girl is one that is full of love and care. she is sweet too...

i just feel that we all should try to be like this girl... we should learn to love, to care, to show with our actions that a litte love can make the world a better place.

you do not see much girls like that in singapore today...

high standards right?

well...

thats what my mom said, and she wished me luck...

then she said... "you think you very good, can find a girl like that?"

i thought she will support me... and she did the opposite...

lol...

well, perhaps a little more love and concern will make me a better person?

like they say in economics terms,

"demand and supply is affected by many factors such as taste and preferences..." well, maybe someone out theres is like this?

i pray and wish that i will marry a girl like that...

before this... i need to love myself more...

i hope i have gave you guys a different perspective...